My kids still log on to this dang blog to read old posts, and they still ask me to start updating it again. I don't know where to start, so I am just going to skip all over the place. For today, let's talk about school since that is one of the reasons I had to walk away from this for awhile.
I graduated with my bachelors degree on December 18th, with a 4.0 GPA. What, what! When I got my associates degree, I graduated with a 3.9, and it has bugged me ever since. This time I was not leaving with anything less than perfection, so forgive me for bragging, but this was seriously the fulfillment of a dream. Now, enough about me.
Let's talk about the kiddos schooling. We have had SO many schooling changes in the last year.
Alyssa- Alyssa loved e-school in 6th grade, but not so much in 7th grade. It was largely because I was not a good e-schooling mom. I was teaching seminary and going to school. I had no time to even sit and eat lunch with her. She decided she wanted to try to get into a charter school for 8th grade. I put in applications at two schools for all 3 kids. I realized that Alyssa is really the only one that e-school would work for. Alex gets too frustrated if he doesn't have a teacher or if I try to be his teacher. Chloe doesn't even like summer break, because she needs lots of human interaction. She needs to go to school. I decided to try to get them into a K-8 charter school so that they would be covered for middle school as well. I will get to the other two in a minute, but Alyssa did not get in anywhere. We decided to do one more year of e-school, and I promised to be a way better mom. So far, this year has been fantastic. Better than 6th grade even. She sleeps in, she gets her work done in a few hours each day, we eat lunch together, and we go to the rink a lot. But, we always knew she would go back for High School, and our plan has always been to get into Lakeview Technology Academy, or as we call it, Nerd School. Lakeview is a charter school, but unlike the other charter schools, they do not just draw names from a lottery. You apply, and your grades and test scores are considered. Alyssa has always been an A student, and she has always had super good scores on her state tests, so we sent in her application and then waited. We were pretty confident, because the principal called us before she applied and told us that she needed to come in and shadow at the school for a day to make sure it was a good fit, and he assured us that she would be selected. She shadowed and loved it, and a few weeks letter she got her official acceptance letter. We are so proud! I will miss having her at home, but this is an exciting new opportunity. Alex also really wants to go to Lakeview, and your application gets higher priority if you have a sibling that goes there so if he can keep his grades up, he will join her in a few years.
*Photo not available. I meant to take her down to the e-school campus and take a pic, but it never happened. Just picture her in skating gear or jeans, a flannel and either Harley Quinn or Jack Skellington converse.
Alex- As I mentioned before, I put in applications for all 3 kids just to keep our options open. I was hoping that Chloe or Alyssa would get in somewhere. Then Alex would have moved to the top of the list for the next year and been able to start at a new school in 6th grade. It is no fun to move for your final year of grade school. As it turned out, no one got in anywhere. Then, about 3 weeks before school started, I got a call from Brompton. It was my second choice charter school, but they had an opening for Alex, so we grabbed it. It was so hard for him to move in 5th grade. Alex gets nervous like me, and for days before school started I could see how frightening this move was for him. It turned out to be such a great fit. It is a small school with only 25 students per grade and that is comfortable to him. He also dealt with some bullying at his old school and has not encountered any of that this year. He was behind, because they use books that are a year ahead of grade level. He has worked really hard to get to where he needs to be, and we are also so proud of him. His artwork is also being featured at the museum for the 5th year in a row.
As you can see, Alex's school requires a uniform. He was a bit embarrassed to wear it the first day, but once he saw everyone in the same thing it was never an issue again.
Chloe- Since Chloe is only in 2nd grade, we were not worried about getting her in anywhere right away. Because Alex was in at Brompton, she would go to the top of the list for the next year. We took her supplies to her old school and met her new teacher, and then, the day before school started we got a call from KTEC. They had an opening for her. This had been my first choice school, so I hated to turn it down. We decided to send her there and then we could compare the two charter schools. She would go to the top of the list at Alex's school and he would go to the top at her school, and then we could stay at two different schools or choose the one we liked better. So, we went and picked up her supplies from our neighborhood school and moved her as well. She also went in behind. I have always wondered if the charter schools were really any better than the assigned schools, and now I know that they are. They immediately assigned Chloe to a reading interventionist. She stayed after school every day for a couple months and got caught up and then some. I begged for help with Alex's reading at that age and the school just blew me off. She is doing well now and memorizing her times tables, which I did not do until 4th grade. She has struggled though. Being behind made her feel "stupid" to use her own words. At times she has begged to go back to Southport, but she has made a lot of progress, and as is always the case with Chloe, a lot of friends.
So now the only dilemma was what to do about next year. Alex got in at Chloe's school for next year, and Chloe got in at Alex's school. I agonized over whether to move them both to the same school or just keep them in different schools. Alex had always wanted to go to KTEC, because they do coding and robotics, but he is comfortable and wasn't sure he wanted to move again. Chloe always wanted to go to Brompton, but she is afraid of being behind again and her entourage doesn't want to let her go. I like both schools. Brompton feels more like a private school. Very small, with everyone very involved. They have a parents table in the cafeteria, and it is chuck full every day. KTEC is a bit bigger, and it is easier to hide from involvement, but Chloe's teacher is the best we have ever had. Both schools have contributed to great academic growth in my kiddos, so ugh, what to do! I kept hoping something would help me decide. On the day of the deadline, we got a lockdown call from KTEC. This is the fourth such call this year. The school is not in the best neighborhood. Usually the disturbance is actually at the middle school next door—the one I did not send Alyssa to—or it is a false alarm, but it still made me wonder if it was an answer. I stressed like crazy, and then the kids just kind of worked it out. Alex said he did not want to move, and Chloe said she was okay with moving and even excited for a new school and new people. Phew! After I called and made it official, Chloe had a bit of a meltdown about switching schools again, but now she has gone back to being excited. I hope I made the right call, but it was nice to be on this end for once...with too many good choices instead of too few.
And now I need to try to figure out what to post next and try to catch up on other people's blogs...if anyone is still blogging. Alex deleted hundreds of pictures from my phone one day. It broke my heart, but it will also give me less stuff to catch up on. Silver lining.